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- 2025-07-24: I think I was somewhat idealizing or portraying myself as a tragic person when I wrote this so that I can escape any type of accountability for being a failure.
Description
An anti-person is characterized by behaviors that prevents one from having a flourishing social life. They may desire connections with others, but will least likely succeed just because of their maladaptive habits and inclinations.
Characteristics
- Addicted to self-pity
- Unfriendly, potentially intimidating
- Narcissistic
- Awkward due to underdeveloped social skills
- Cowardly
- Insecure
- Anxious
Signs of an Anti-Person
- Rarely starts a conversation unless they require assistance.
- Barely engages in humorous conversations with others. Often fake laughs.
- Looks at phone often to avoid conversations
- Sometimes does not respond to greetings
- Does not greet others
- Does not voluntarily assist others due to the fear of being judged
- Avoids any display of intimacy
- Interests often involved sad/edgy tones
- Does not leave their comfort zone; resulting, to reinforced bad behaviors
- Secretly hates everyone. Simultaneously does not take accountability and self-hatred/blame (partially performative).
- Can sometimes be misleadingly altruistic—demonstrates actions perceived as ‘selfless’ but with selfish intent
- Frequent attempts to appear sad (due to self-pity addiction), competent (due to narcissism), cultured (due to narcissism), awkward (due to underdeveloped social skills), or heartless (due to selfishness, cowardliness, anxiousness).